When getting along with girls, whether chatting or dating, it must be natural. But most boys are very deliberate when dating girls, so they often fail to date girls. So how can it be more natural to ask a girl out for dinner?
1. Invite according to the trend
Invite according to the trend, which means :
If you want to ask a girl out to dinner, you can start the chat about food;
If you want to ask a girl out to a concert, you can start the chat around her favorite singer. Start;
Or if a girl is good at something, and you plan to ask her for help, she will probably not refuse.
For example:
Male: Where do you like to go on weekends?
Female: I usually go to the library or go shopping with my best friends.
Male: Our boss is getting married this weekend, but I haven’t thought of what to give him. If you have time, please go shopping with me.
Female: Okay, I’m the best at this.
Inviting according to the trend can make your invitation more natural and not deliberate.
At the same time, if you have a certain understanding of a girl’s interests and hobbies, it will be a good driving force for her and will increase the success rate of dating her.
If you want to know her quickly, go chat with her more.
If you are not good at words, you can also look at her circle of friends and some social network updates.
When making an invitation, focus on her interests. Even if you are just friends for the time being, the girl will most likely not reject you.
Many girls like to watch anime, and "White Snake" was recently released. Do you understand what I mean?
2. Drop-in invitation
Drop-in invitation, as the name suggests, invites people in the name of drop-in.
If you are worried that a girl won’t go out with you, you can say this to her:
Male: The sun is shining on your butt, it’s time to get up~
Female: I Got up early.
Male: That’s just right. I’m going to the pet shop in a while and pass by your house downstairs to have a meal together.
Female: Okay.
In fact, in the process of getting along with girls, the most important thing is to be natural.
And inviting people along the way is a very natural thing, and it is not very offensive or targeted.
In addition, it also reflects that you have your own things to do, and asking her out is just a way to go.
And the right to choose is given to girls, which shows respect.
In addition, I secretly tell my friends that using this method, I can also test out to a certain extent that womenstudents are interested in you.
Usually when a girl agrees to date you, it means she has a crush on you.
To take a step back, even if you are rejected, you won’t be embarrassed. At worst, you can just make an appointment next time.
3. Invite by chance
You can do this during festivals, gatherings with friends, or when traveling. Take the girls with you.
For example:
Male: Are you free this Friday?
Female: I...Not sure, what's the matter?
Male: Friday seems to be some kind of pure friendship day between men and women. It is said that there will be fireworks. Let's go watch it together. Look.
Female: Why haven’t I heard of this festival?
Male: There are a lot of people in the square and it’s very lively. You’ll know it when you go there.
Female: Okay.
With the help of crowds and party invitations, the issue of "two people alone" can be effectively weakened.
This is very important, because before your relationship has been established, girls will be very concerned about "going out alone with the opposite sex."
If you can relieve her of this layer of pressure, asking her out will naturally become easy.
However, there are certain risks when attending a friend’s party. Once your friend seems taller and more handsome than you at first glance, what should a girl do if she likes your friend?
So in the early stages of dating, if you are not confident in the relationship between two people, you don’t have to rush to introduce girls to your friends.
