Autumn is here and the weather is getting cooler. It is more difficult to date a girl in this season than in other seasons.
First, they are afraid of the cold.
Most girls are delicate and cute creatures, and their tolerance to cold is much lower than that of boys. Physiologically, they don’t want to go out.
The second reason is because I love beauty.
It is difficult for even beautiful girls to wear bulky and monotonous winter clothes, let alone most ordinary girls. Psychologically, they don't go.
So, once a girl crosses these two thresholds and agrees to go on a date with you, she more or less has a good impression of you, so how can you use dating to amplify this good impression and heat up the relationship? What about?
1. Contrast on the first date
Girls are like cats, curiosity is their instinct .
Interest will naturally arise after arousing their curiosity.
For girls who are not familiar with it, the simplest technique to arouse curiosity is to create a sense of contrast.
Looking at the popularity of discussions among girls in the hot search topic Contrast, you will know what kind of magical fascination they have with contrast.
Most of the girls you date don’t know you very well. They will subconsciously outline your biography based on your professional nature and circle of friends.
If you are a programmer, the stereotype is likely to be a plaid shirt, dull, or even straight.
For you, if you wear clean British style and ask her to go to a fresh cat theme park or cat cafe, you will definitely achieve good results.
Break her first stereotype of you and give the girl a unique face that seems different from other programmers.
Remember your sense of contrast. This is a small step for a girl to move toward you, but it is a step forward in the progress of your relationship. Stride.
In addition, in autumn and winter, cat cafes not only bring people a warm feeling.
Cute cats can also relieve the awkwardness of two people not being familiar with each other, and may even have extra points to make the girl think that you also like small animal brains and that you are a gentle person.
Here, we should remember that the most powerful self-Amway will never directly tell a girl what kind of person you are.
But let her deduce what kind of person you are from the details.
2. The second date exceeded expectations
A good first date laid the foundation for her to be invited again. You broke the initial impression.
At this time, we need to make persistent efforts to break her expectations and give her constant surprises.
Different from the constraints of the first date, dating again requires a little more interaction and strives to create twoA unique human experience.
For example, go to the cake shop to make handmade desserts, participate in offline board game rounds together, visit exhibitions together, explore Internet celebrity stores together, etc.
In short, go play some niche and interesting projects.
When you are more familiar, you can also take short road trips, participate in group camping, and go to beautiful temples and Taoist temples.
Or use a screen + a projector phone to DIY an outdoor movie that belongs only to you and her in the park at night.
In short, give her some unprecedented experiences.
Creating fun in a boring life is the ability to master this kind of thinking.
You will not only get a new girlfriend, but also a new life.
