The first date with a girl is very important, because it is about the boy’s primacy in the girl’s heart Effect, once you show off on the first date, it will largely result in a girl having a bad impression of you! Therefore, the first date must be arranged well, and take a look at the dating routines that straight men are learning!< /p>
1. Preparation before the first date
a) On the first date, if you start talking If a girl smells your bad breath, she will most likely be passed over. If you kiss a girl, she will vomit out her overnight meal. Therefore, brushing your teeth and chewing gum are must-have preparations for a date.
b) Prepare the clothes, hair styling, and clean shoes for the first date in advance. A good appearance is the first step to build goodwill.
c) Adequate sleep can show your energy and let girls see an energetic you!
d) Prepare some chat topics and humorous jokes for the date , Plan B for emergencies.
2. Selection of first date location
Choose the corresponding date location according to the type of girl. , this is the primary selection criterion for the first date location!
Suitable first date locations for lively girls: nightclub (moving), KTV (moving), amusement park (moving)
Suitable first date locations for quiet girls: parks (quiet), seaside (quiet), coffee shops (quiet)
No matter which city you are in, there are many places where you can go on a date. You need to search for "cinema" on the map. You will be overwhelmed by the surrounding parks, playgrounds, bars, aquariums, escape rooms... It mainly depends on the type of girl you go on a first date with.
3. KINO operation on the first date
KINO is derived from the abbreviation of kinesthetic. It is the merger of the Greek words kinein [movement] and aesthetikos [perception], which means kinesthetic sense. of.
In 1920, Italian educator Montessori proposed the "VAK" education model: auditory, visual, and kinesthetic [KINO].
Based on this theory, Xiaoyu Love has developed a framework for interaction with girls: using body language to create a visual one; using tone and language to create an auditory one, and using KINO to create a kinesthetic one.
Commonly used KINO operations: patting a girl on the shoulder when speaking in agreement, pulling a girl unconsciously when crossing the road, touching hands when passing a tissue to a girl.
Progressive KINO: Hold hands, pull in for a hug, hug the waist, stroke the hair and look into the girl’s eyes, kiss...
4. Body language on the first date
Everyone will be nervous on the first date, but that feeling is incredible. Get. You need to know that it is normal to be nervous, and girls actually experience varying degrees of nervousness.
However, it should be noted that on the first date, you need to show good body language: smile, sincere and appreciative eyes, gentleman's posture, natural and confident calmness, and humor from time to time.
