It is normal for a girl to be rejected when asking out. There may be many reasons for a girl to refuse. Some of them may be real, and some may be random excuses. So do you still want to pursue a girl who cannot date you? Here are the points: Two situations are explained to you.
1. Occasionally you can ask out
If the girl you like can occasionally ask out, occasionally If you can't get a date, there are two situations:
1. Hanging on you
Some girls do not reject invitations from boys, but they will selectively accept your dates. . For example, if your date is in a place that suits her, and she happens to be going shopping, she wants to get some food... She is not dating you because she likes you, but because she can get some incidental things (gifts, meals) by dating you. Tickets, lipstick, bags...) And this kind of girl will accept your kindness to her, but every time you ask her to be your girlfriend, she will neither accept nor refuse. She is just riding a donkey to find a horse. You, if one day she realizes that she didn't force you to make a better choice, she might be able to accept you. In this case, a girl can just give up if she can't get a date.
2. Girls have trouble
Sometimes even if a girl likes you, if she has something, you She may reject you if you ask her out. For example, if she made an appointment with her best friends to go shopping in advance, do you want her to refuse her best friends to date you? There is a question involved here. Regarding the invitation time, it is best to make an appointment with the girl in advance so that she can have time to plan. The second thing is to ask the girl for her opinion before dating so that she can be selective. In this case, you can try asking her out next time.
2. Girls can’t even date you out once
Some girls treat you after meeting you She's not too satisfied, or she doesn't like the way you chat with her... In short, she's not satisfied with you, and if you ask her out later, she won't be able to date her once. In this case, don't believe what the girl says about something happening today. Son, I have to attend training tomorrow... These excuses are actually just excuses for them to reject you tactfully. It's just that they don't want to say it clearly, so they can only reject all possibilities with you in these ways. If you meet a girl who can't date you even once, then it is recommended to give up!
In fact, the most important thing for a girl who can't date you is to analyze the reasons why she doesn't date you, so that you can Find out what she thinks about you in her heart, and you can correctly judge whether you should continue to pursue her. In addition, it is best to ask the girl her reasons so that you can avoid these problems on your next date and get her on a date more smoothly. Or ask a girl for her dating opinions and see what kind of dating she likes.
