Nowadays, many boys are busy with their careers and work, and basically have no time to socialize. Therefore, how to seize the free time to chat and date girls has become the key to being single. So how can boys quickly ask out girls without being rejected? What?
1. Screening targets
Girls of different ages and habits, The difficulty and cost of invitations vary.
Girls over 27 years old are in urgent need of marriage and love. When it comes to marriage and love, they will have strict material requirements. Even if the invitation comes out, it may be to "go straight to" the topic of material conditions, so it is okay not to make an appointment.
If you usually have a rich life and like to eat, drink and have fun, then a girl who loves to play will be a good choice for you. Girls love to play, and you have a rich life, so it is easy to invite girls out to play.
2. Photo matching
The core of Internet dating is a set of photo walls, which is equivalent to your identity on the Internet. No photos are equivalent to a black account. Choosing a mate is a competition with the same sex. Others have exquisite photo walls, but you use blue sky, white clouds, cats and dogs as your profile picture.
Think about it, are you competitive in such an environment? Even if you are not competitive, why would a girl want to chat with you?!
3. Establish attraction
With the blessing of the photo wall, you can establish a most basic attraction. Men and women are different. You can basically see clearly the value of women through a set of photos. However, the value of men is mainly reflected in the level of social value, and women need to be exposed to them before they can evaluate and judge.
To build attraction, the focus of the chat topic must be around yourself! What advantages and values ??you have need to be conveyed to the other party through chatting. The other person uses your sample to feel you and decide whether they are attracted to you.
4. Stretching the relationship
Attraction alone is not enough, you need to sublimate your relationship. Movie stars are also attractive to women, but women don't really invest in them because there is no relationship-level heating up.
The heating up of relationships can be roughly divided into: strangers < ordinary friends < ambiguity < flirting < boyfriend and girlfriend.
The best invitation point is naturally the higher the degree of relationship, the better. But in reality, not all girls are willing to be too intimate with a man on the Internet. The editor's suggestion is that as long as you are in the ambiguous stage, you can try to invite someone. Because no matter how good you chat online, your relationship needs to be implemented in reality through dating.
5. Vague invitation
When a girl is more interested, you can make a vague invitation to test the girl’s attitude. A vague invitation does not need to specify the time and place. For example, play together when we are free, and drink together when we are free.
The girl readily agreed and then made further detailed invitations. The girl refused. According to the editor's experience, it would be better to switch to someone else. I didn't readily agree to vague invitations, and the probability of them being invited was extremely low.
6. Specific invitation
Based on the vague invitation, we can try to make the invitation concrete. Further, try to finalize a specific date plan based on the girl’s free time, hobbies, etc.
Don’t be too complacent after a girl readily agrees. Because at this time, the girl is just talking, and it cannot confirm that she really wants to date you. She needs to further test her interest!
The editor usually tests the girl's interest through phone calls. Phone calls are relatively private information. If the other party is not even willing to give you a phone call, don't expect her to keep the appointment.
7. Implement the invitation
With the exact invitation time and plan, it does not mean that the girl will definitely I will let you go. We need to further test the girls closer to the invitation and before departure. For example, if you have an appointment to meet tomorrow, you can ask her about her arrangements the day before. For example, if you are going to meet in the afternoon, you can ask her in advance when she will leave.
