On a date with a girl, small things like holding hands can effectively bring the relationship closer between the two parties. So what should you do to hold hands with a girl on your first date?
On a first date, you just met. When a girl comes, we can extend our hand to shake the girl's hand in a gentlemanly manner.
If the girl is not disgusted, then we can directly hold her hand and pull her back.
It will not be impolite, but it will also leave a deep impression on the girl. It will also make her think that you are very humorous, which will kick off the relaxed atmosphere of this date.
Holding hands during the first acquaintance stage is usually inadvertent. The main purpose is to observe how girls will respond to our behavior.
And cultivate the other party’s superficial habit of this kind of physical contact, and combine it with appropriate humor to mobilize the other party’s emotions.
At this time, you must note that all holding hands and touching are out of politeness and let nature take its course.
Don’t hold hands just for the sake of holding hands, otherwise it will look very deliberate and make girls feel uncomfortable.
Another example is when you are eating and the other person accidentally brings food to his mouth.
If you tell her directly, "You have something on your lips," it will not be conducive to the advancement of your relationship, but it will also make the other party lose face.
But if you directly pick up a tissue, gently wipe the corners of her mouth, and combine it with nicknames that you often use between you, such as "little fool" and so on, the effect will be better.
There are many ways to create an ambiguous atmosphere.
For example, lower your head and whisper to her in a noisy environment, or hold her hand in a situation where there are many couples.
Physical contact at this stage is mostly for legitimate reasons or even intentional.
The purpose is to let the other party get used to your way of getting along.
What needs to be considered is the girl’s emotions. If the girl shows that she cares, we must not continue to do similar things.
The last way of holding hands is suitable for the relationship between two people. When the relationship is ambiguous enough to be similar to that of a couple, it is an intimate relationship. catalyst.
For example, when you are on a date, you can ask a girl, "Do those two people over there look like a couple?"
She may say they do, or they don't.
At this time, you can ask her, "Do you think we are alike?"
If the girl replies that we are not alike, we can directly hold her hand and say, "That's it." "It's similar."
If she answers, you can say, "I don't think it's similar enough," and then still hold her hand and say, "This is more like it."
It can be said that although there is no clear stage of holding hands during a date, the timing of holding hands can often be seen.
In the past, people often used palm reading or playing games to hold hands with girls. This method is also suitable for young people in the love stage.
Appropriate physical contact helps us express our inner emotions correctly, and also facilitates future relationship promotion.
Many friends make two mistakes when holding hands.
Or you have a good relationship with the girl, but because you didn’t seize the opportunity to hold hands with the girl when you met, the relationship is still at the same place after several dates.
Or when you are not familiar with the girl, you hold hands very deliberately, leaving the girl with an impression of being too fussy and insecure.
Therefore, we must proceed step by step and choose the most appropriate way of holding hands at different stages to bring you closer.
