Question: When I was about to meet the girl I was dating for the first time, she asked me to go near her home. I thought it was a long way (it might take me 2 hours), so I asked if I could find a middle ground for our first meeting. See you at the location. As a result, people disagreed and gradually stopped talking to me.
Later, someone introduced another girl on a blind date. For the first time, I chose a place close to her. For the second time, she asked me to go to her house to pick her up. I felt uncomfortable with the road. Yuan Yuan did not agree. I asked for a date somewhere in the middle, and they wouldn't come out.
I would like to ask if I am really wrong? Should men pay more? When meeting a girl on a blind date, should you choose a place that is close to her? Should I always meet the girl’s requirements every time?
Should I choose a place close to my blind date girl when meeting her?
Answer: In fact, if you think about it from her perspective, you will know why a girl on a blind date requires that the meeting place be somewhere close to her.
For example, if you are asked to do something that you really don’t want to do, can you find 180 excuses not to go out? The girl on the blind date thinks Lu Yuan is too lazy to come out; if she doesn’t pick you up and can’t come out, isn’t this an excuse for her not to want to go on a date with you? Even if you obey her every time, she might tell you that something urgent happened and she won't be able to come. In the end, your work will be in vain.
To take a step back, when she was chasing stars, why didn’t she feel that she was too far away to pick them up? She had to rush all the way to the ground, making herself look pretty and pretty, so that she could chase her male god. To put it bluntly, it’s possible that she doesn’t want to go on a blind date in the first place, or that you’re not that attractive, or she thinks she’s weird, so you have to be sincere to pray for her favor, and you have to look at her. At that time, I was unwilling to meet you.
Moreover, blind dates are mutual and cannot be maintained by one person, so I think it is okay to find a middle place to meet when you are far away. Mutual respect should be taken. Show your sincerity and discuss a suitable location together. I think you are right.
Of course, when men and women get along, as a boy, there is nothing wrong with being humble to girls. If you refuse directly, the girl will Children will inevitably become dissatisfied. I don’t know how you refused or what you said. It was just a matter of accommodating the girl at the place of eating. It didn’t go to the point where the boy had to pay more to meet the girl’s request.
But your second blind date girl has already met you once and still uses various excuses to be unwilling to come out to see you. In fact, it is recommended to stop the loss in time.
