If you want to increase the success rate of an invitation, you must first understand that in the eyes of girls, dating is a very cautious matter. You can choose whomever you want to chat with, but dating someone must be based on dating.
In other words, if a girl chats with you online very passionately, but always refuses your invitations, then there are only two This situation:
Either she doesn’t know you well enough and wants to check it out again; or your hard value cannot keep up, such as appearance and work, which do not meet her mate selection standards. If you belong to the third In the second case, what you have to consider is how to improve yourself.
Many boys approach girls in the wrong way. They are not only afraid that if they take the initiative to date a girl, their price will drop, but they are also afraid that if they suddenly ask a girl out, the other party may not be available.
There are also some older brothers who, as soon as they add a girl’s WeChat account and contact information, and after just a few words of chatting, without even saying a word about her horoscope, they directly ask the girl to come out for a dinner date with you.
The invitation under such circumstances will have a success rate, but it will certainly not be very high.
So if you want to ask a girl out, or if you want to increase the success rate of asking her out, you must make an appointment with the girl in advance and give the girl time to prepare.
But when you make an appointment with the other party, you should try your best not to make an appointment with a girl with a great sense of need, and not to expose your needs in front of the girl. Only in this way can you greatly reduce the social pressure when you make an appointment.
Next, I will share with you some high-success rate routines for asking girls to have dinner.
1. Topic-guided invitations
Compared to asking girls abruptly, "How about we meet up?", the topic-guided invitation method can not only conceal our sense of need to the greatest extent , and it can also make it difficult for girls to refuse.
For example, if you talk to a girl about food, and the girl says that she especially likes hot pot, you can invite her like this: "Really? When I passed by xx last time, I found that there was a new restaurant there. I bought a hot pot restaurant and the decoration is very unique. How about we try it another day?"
If a girl likes to take pictures, you can say this: "I went to 798 Art Square with my friends a few days ago. There is a new Internet celebrity wall there, which is particularly suitable for taking pictures. I think you might like this kind of place."
Faced with such an invitation, most girls will not refuse. However, it should be noted that it is best to send invitations based on a girl's own interests, otherwise she may not be interested.
2. Make invitations with the help of group activities
When a girl refuses a boy’s invitation, it’s because she has no interest in him at all. Except for the good impression,Another reason might be embarrassment.
Many girls who have little love experience will feel nervous when alone with boys, fearing that they will not find a topic to talk about.
Therefore, the success rate of asking her out will be higher if you find some familiar friends and ask her out, for example:
"I asked a few friends to go to the amusement park to play together on the weekend. You know me too, do you want to come with me?"
3. Pretend to be along for the ride
Sometimes, for those girls who have been unable to date many times, we can surprise them once. There may be unexpected effects.
For example: If this girl is at home, before you invite her, you can go to her home, pretend to be passing by, and ask her to have a cup of coffee or have a meal together near her home. For girls, the sense of security is relatively high in a familiar environment. At this time, the success rate of invitations you send out will definitely be very high.
