There are many things to pay attention to when dating a girl for the first time. If a boy ignores these taboos during the date, it is very likely that this date will become the last one. Below, I will give you some popular science on the first date. precautions.
1. Being late for an appointment
Punctuality is a very important thing, especially If you make the other person wait on your first date, you will definitely leave a bad first impression in his heart. Failure to be punctual will make the other person feel that you are not interested in going to the appointment, so being late for an appointment is definitely a big no-no! The best way is to be 20 minutes early When you go out in about 5 minutes, in addition to the buffer time, you also have time to go to the meeting place to sort out your clothes and appearance, so as to leave a deep and beautiful impression on the other party.
2. Being too intimate too early on a date
When some brothers get along with a girl, they will be a little anxious and want the girl to have physical contact, or they will have physical contact with the girl and then keep doing it. If you don't let go, your neediness will often be exposed at this time, making the girl feel that you are vulgar, and even making the girl feel that you are taking advantage of her. I first want to praise the brother who behaves like this, because his courage is commendable, but he is not a gentleman enough. Physical contact can be made, but it must be done step by step through testing. There are detailed introductions in the physical contact upgrading course section. Brothers who are interested can see how to correctly and step by step make physical upgrades with girls.
3. Pretend to understand when you don’t understand
In fact, during the date and chat, if you don’t know something, just tell her honestly and she will be happy to tell you. Explanation, but if you insist on pretending to understand for the sake of face, then it will be easy for girls to feel disgusted if you are exposed.
4. Being too self-centered
We all know that the first date will be a little nervous, and you will tend to choose things you are familiar with to discuss. Who else knows you better? However, the first date should be a process of getting to know each other. You have to make the other person feel that you are interested in her, ask them questions, and let them ask you questions. There is truly a mutual dialogue between the two parties. Simply put, stay calm.
5. Physical contact
This is also a big taboo. Girls are all natural socializers. The body’s radar is incredibly sharp, and physical touch is a powerful tool for avoiding the “plague-like friendship zone trap.”
The meaning of the touch itself is: we are not friends. Because many brothers did not touch each other during dates, they eventually developed the goddess into a friend.
Many boys will encounter this problem. If there is no physical contact on two dates, you will easily enter the friendship zone.
6. Talking non-stop
If you realize that you are talking non-stop on a first date, stop immediately and observe whether the girl is interested in what you are talking about. If she is reluctant, change it. Talk about topics that interest her.
7. Too attentive
Since we were young, our mothers and schools have told us to pamper and care for girls. But he didn't say that being too groveling would make you look like a lapdog.
Excessive attentiveness = denial of self-worth + I do this because I am not worthy of you
If you feel that you should be nice to girls, then girls will also think so, and girls also have their own hands and feet. , there are some things she can take care of on her own, so we shouldn’t be too attentive, especially if it’s your first date... Being too cold and overly attentive are both signs of lack of confidence, and their balance point is what makes a gentleman.
8. Show off
Is revealing a designer belt a hidden value? Definitely not! This kind of behavior is It seems that girls are all childish, and they are as low-value as they want.
This is also the reason why when getting along with girls, we don’t let everyone prove it. A man’s self-confidence comes from his heart, from the inside out, and does not rely on any external things. In addition, showing off personal experiences can also be a low-value thing. Girls should slowly discover our value through our interactions, rather than showing off on our own.
9. Greasy head + dirty shoes
Your hair must be clean at all times, and the edges of your shoes must be clean.
Hair can increase your overall score by 1 point, or even lower your score by 1 point. Hair oil is a killer, a must-have nuclear weapon at home, guaranteed to make a girl sick from the first sight to the last
10. No opinion
Ordering food is like a marathon. You can’t do anything when ordering. Hesitating~~~~ Letting girls make decisions and choices is the worst dating experience for women. For example:</ p>
What should we eat? What do you want? Where should we go?
Don’t ask, just make arrangements and you can just lead. When ordering, you can first ask the girl about her taboos and favorite foods, and then you can just take care of the rest after the girl tells you. The same goes for dates. We arrange the date location and then guide the girl through the entire process. Just go there.
A man who is confident, independent and considerate is the most attractive.
You must avoid making mistakes when chasing girls, especially during the first date. Be sure to avoid the above 10 taboos. Don’t let these small problems hinder you from chasing girls.
