There is no 100% successful invitation. After all, there are only a few ways for boys to invite girls, and there are too many ways for girls to reject boys. Therefore, it is normal for a girl to be rejected when asking a girl out. So when asking a girl out When she refuses on the grounds that she “doesn’t want to go out”, what should a boy do?
First of all, you must know , a girl does not agree to your invitation, but responds to your invitation by saying "I don't want to go out". There are generally three reasons: 1. Rejecting you politely 2. The girl's reserve 3. It is inconvenient to come out
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If the other person you are chatting with usually doesn’t take the initiative, doesn’t respond positively, and rejects you for similar reasons more than once, then it’s almost certain that the girl is rejecting you tactfully. At this time, you either give up the goal, or freeze it temporarily and find the right time to re-establish attraction. Excluding the first reason, in fact, in the latter two cases, there is still a slight chance to make an appointment with the other party.
Simulated conversation:
You: Let’s go see a movie together? (Choose something that girls are interested in)
Female: I’m sorry, I don’t want to go out today, let’s go some other time
You: I feel uncomfortable or in a bad mood
Female: I’m in a bad mood (tell For your reasons, you can take the opportunity to invite another one)
You: Then you should go out for a walk. It will be harder to relieve bad emotions if you make an appointment to be alone.
Or
Female: It’s okay, I just don’t want to go out (I don’t want to say the reason, maybe I’m rejecting you tactfully, maybe I’m really in a bad mood, so I can pause the chat)
You: OK, then you should pay attention to rest. Let’s make an appointment another day
In fact, the above three reasons, except for the second reason, the remaining two reasons indicate that the girl is today It is unlikely that you will be able to make an appointment, so if you don’t know how to judge, just in case, you can directly choose to give up the invitation and make the following responses:
1. “Well, okay, we’ll see you another day Appointment"
2. "Then you have a good rest, I will go out to play by myself"
3. "Then we won't come out, how about we chat for a while?"
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