When you confess your love to the girl you like, she says: "We are good friends." What should you do at this time? Let me share with you some coping methods.
1. Accept the reality
When a girl says the words "We are good friends", The first thing to do is to accept reality. Don't force the other person to change her mind, and don't try to convince her. Respect each other's decisions and maintain a good attitude and relationship.
2. Don’t give up
Although the girl rejects your confession, it does not mean that there is no chance between you. Continue to keep in touch, chat and date more, and increase mutual understanding and affection. Maybe at some point in the future, she'll find herself developing deeper feelings for you.
3. Give yourself time
After being rejected, you may feel lost and frustrated. At this time, you need to give yourself some time to adjust your mentality and emotions. You can chat with friends, play games, watch movies, etc. to distract yourself and get yourself out of the shadows quickly.
4. Re-examine yourself
After being rejected, you can reflect on whether you have any problems or shortcomings. For example, defects in character, shortcomings in appearance, etc. Find out where your problems lie, and then work hard to improve and improve yourself.
5. Don’t give up the right to pursue happiness
Although the girl rejects your confession, it does not mean that you can no longer pursue happiness. You can try to meet new people, expand your social circle, and increase opportunities and possibilities. Only by pursuing unremittingly can you finally achieve success.
When girls say "we are good friends", they must first accept the reality and maintain a good attitude and relationship. At the same time, don't give up, give yourself time to adjust your mentality and emotions, and re-examine your problems. The most important thing is not to give up the right to pursue happiness. Only by pursuing it unremittingly can you finally achieve success.
