In modern society, people pay more and more attention to their emotional life. Confession is a part of emotional life, but many people don't know how to chat with the girl they like, let alone what to do if the confession fails. This article will provide you with some chatting skills from these two aspects.
1. How to chat with the girl you like
Chatting with the girl you like is not an easy task and requires us to have certain skills and methods. Here are some suggestions:
1) Get to know the other person first: Before starting to chat, you can communicate through social media or mutual friends, etc. Understand the other person’s interests, hobbies, personality traits and other information in order to better chat.
2) Find common topics: During the chat process, you can find common topics by asking questions, sharing your own experiences, etc. to increase interaction between each other.
3) Be polite: Be polite and respectful in both words and actions, and do not use vulgar or offensive language.
4) Pay attention to tone and expression: During the chat, pay attention to your tone and expression, maintain a natural and relaxed state, and don't be too nervous or deliberate.
2. Chatting skills after failed confession of love
After failed confession of love, many people will feel embarrassed and embarrassed. But that doesn’t mean we can’t continue chatting with each other. The following are some suggestions:
1) Stay calm: No matter whether your confession is successful or failed, you must stay calm and rational, and don’t be Mood swings lead to drastic behavior.
2) Avoid embarrassing topics: During the chat, you can avoid talking about confession topics to avoid making the other party feel embarrassed or uncomfortable.
3) Continue to communicate: Even if the confession fails, you can continue to keep in touch with the other party, share bits and pieces of life, and increase mutual understanding.
4) Don’t give up hope: Although the confession failed, it does not mean that we have no chance. You can regain the other person's heart by getting to know the other person better, improving your own charm, etc.
In the process of chatting with the girl we like and the chat after the confession fails, we need to remain confident and natural, and not be too nervous or deliberate. At the same time, you must also respect each other's feelings and opinions and don't force it.
