Sometimes you clearly know that you don’t like someone, but when faced with her persistent pursuit of you, you may feel unbearable and cannot bear to refuse directly. In other words, I was gradually moved by her, mistakenly thinking that being moved meant love, and just accepted it. But emotional matters cannot be forced. For a girl you don't love, you should directly refuse to let her give up. Let me share with you what to do if a girl you don’t like confesses to you?
1. Being together because you don’t love will lead to tragedy
When a boy faces the fierce pursuit of a girl he doesn’t like, he is gentle and good in pursuit, knowing clearly that he I don’t love it, but I accept it anyway. Boys who think like this think that agreeing to your pursuit is the best repayment for your love. However, as time goes by, the girl loses the energy she had when pursuing, and the two gradually become more like a normal couple. In life, a boy feels that a girl cares less and less about her, while a girl feels that a boy never loved her in the first place. Only then will the girl understand that without the passionate pursuit, she would not have this relationship, and she would eventually resent the boy she loved so much. Since you don't love her, why should she agree to her pursuit? Instead of pitying herself, it's better to reject her from the beginning.
2. If you don’t love it, it’s best to refuse
If you are eager to be single, but I will confess to you If you don't like the girl at all, the best thing to do at this time is to refuse. Why?
1. If you don’t love that girl, you can’t pretend to like that girl. To pretend to love, you not only need to suppress your heart, but also try your best to make this relationship flawless. This kind of pretended emotion often cannot withstand the test of time.
2. You are hesitant, or you are greedy for the good things of a girl and are reluctant to let go, or you are embarrassed to refuse because of the reputation of being a classmate or friend. If you agree, not only will you have to sacrifice your youth. You will feel guilty if you have to spend more energy to maintain this relationship, and it is not a voluntary love, but a love held hostage. As for a girl, she can feel your inner rejection. The feeling of being far away is like duckweed in the torrent. She has no sense of security and loves with fear. Since the ending is destined to be bad, The most correct way is to not let this relationship begin.
A man must have his own criteria for choosing a mate. If he doesn’t understand it, he must believe in his feelings. If he has been in contact with a girl for a while, Time feels awkward, and there is a voice in my heart saying leave now, leave now, then you must say no and express your feelings: I'm sorry we can't be together, my heart doesn't allow me to give in. This is the best way to treat each other.
