When the same type of things are placed in front of you, before you know which one is more suitable for you, you will definitely be more inclined to choose the one with higher value. In the same way, if a woman has to choose between two men, she will definitely prefer the high-value man. If you want to be the man that women choose, you have to make yourself appear valuable. Below, Xiaoyu Love will explain to you what aspects of high-value men are reflected in? What kind of men do women like?
1. The hard value of high-value men
The so-called hard value is the value that is obvious and can be discovered without in-depth understanding.
For example Handsome, owning a house, a car, good figure, and talent
These are all obvious values, and you will be immediately attracted to them as soon as you see them
The biggest advantage of hard value is Stable, no matter your current condition is good or bad, your handsome face can always stably output the feeling of attraction
But the biggest difficulty in hard value is shaping. You need to save money to buy a RV, and a handsome face requires skin care, makeup, and even Plastic surgery and talent require a lot of training and it may take you several years to create the same hard value.
2. The soft value of high-value men
Soft value can also bring a feeling of attraction to women , but it needs to be slowly revealed to women during the relationship.
1. A colorful life
The so-called life refers to the time other than eating, sleeping, working and studying. The life of most men consists of masturbating during the day and masturbating at night. They live completely in a virtual time. When chatting with women, their minds go blank, or the topics are completely unattractive and unattractive. Word.
When you put aside the virtual world and try to experience the fun from your real life, your life will become more colorful.
For example, go to places you have never been to, such as trying food you have never eaten, such as cooking dishes you have never cooked, such as finding entertainment items on a certain group that you have never experienced.
None of these things will increase your life experience, and a rich life experience is what women yearn for and what they need. Once you present a rich life experience to a woman during a chat, Sometimes, a woman can't help but move closer to you and can't help but want to enter your life, and the only way to enter your life is to become your girlfriend.
2. Fun and interesting
When many people chat with women, they always think about how to make women Happy, what topics do women like? Behind this is actually flattering thinking. With this kind of thinking, it is impossible for your chat to be fun and interesting.
The really fun and interesting trick is to please yourself, chatting is not about the price and cost of pursuing her, but about amusing yourself and making yourself happy during the chatting process, and women are just a medium to make yourself happy.
When you please yourself during chatting, your happy mood will naturally infect women, and they will like the feeling of chatting with you, and attraction will arise spontaneously.
3. Positive attitude
Many people release negative energy and like to complain when chatting with women. Complain that the world is unfair, complain that the salary is not high enough, complain that life is too tiring, complain that you cannot find true love, etc. The more you complain, the farther away women will be from you. On the contrary, think about the good side of everything and view everything from a positive perspective. Not only will your life be better, but women will also be attracted by your optimistic and positive state.
Of course, different women like different types of men. For example, some women like strong men, and some women like strong men. Mature, some women like people who can joke, and some women like people with small eyes, so if you want to attract women, you must first understand women's preferences.
